Our marriage has grown and bloomed since the beginning. One thing I've learned, Tom is a fixer, and a good strong one!
Last year we moved to a condo on the bay. For years the association had been bamboozled and bilked. We chose to ignore the local gossips (at that time there were only two) and became friends with some of the Board of Directors, who had already spent years fixing it.
They revised the Bylaws to meet Michigan Condominium Rules. They paid off bills and fixed broken properties.